OBGYN....Are you kidding me???

So yesterday I had my annual with my OB. I was not exactly happy about it, but really who ever is? However, I was especially not happy with having to see him as he is the man that about a month ago told me the wonderful news of my reproducing future. I managed to calm myself, its routine, no biggie. I bring my book (Eclipse) I am totally addicted to the Twilight series by the way. And, I manage to make it through the almost 45 minute wait. It was also very comforting to be sitting in the room, waiting for him, while staring at the wall of the chart of how the baby grows after certain number of weeks...who cares????? (How was that sarcasm?) Anyway, he finally comes in and starts asking me the generic questions (How is work? How am I?) And, then says, so it says here in your chart that you are off BC..do you want to talk about that? What??? Of course I want to talk about it..I am angry and hurt and are you kidding me??? I then proceed to tell him that yeah, me and the DH had been to the RE last week and as soon as I say DH's name it hits him. Oh my how could he have forgotten?? I mean seriously what does it take 5 seconds to check my chart and see that I was here less than a month ago???? He feels awful at this point because for some unknown reason I break into hysterics. Really it was like I was 5 years old and just fell off my bike. I can't stop. He takes my hand and tells me everything will be okay. Then he proceeds to tell me that DH and I should really consider donor sperm. It is the most cost effective and will reek less havoc on both of us. And, from what he sees he thinks this or adoption are our only options. WTF!!!!!! That's what I say. You didn't even remember who I was do you honestly think that I am going to listen to anything that you say? You sir are no expert!! You couldn't even look at my chart before talking to me. In his defense I know that he sees a lot of patients and he just thought this was routine, but I felt like I had been punched in the stomach. I left there soooo upset. He apologized like crazy...but I still couldn't realx. I got in the car, called DH, and had another what I can only describe as an anxiety attack. I couldn't breathe, I was hysterical crying and screaming. Did I over re-act? I have a tendency to do that.